There’s one thing most clients aren’t prepared for when their renovation begins: the emotional rollercoaster.
Even the most trusting, go-with-the-flow clients can start to feel overwhelmed once the demo phase hits. That first week, when everything looks torn apart and nothing yet resembles a beautiful "after," is often when nerves show up - and your ability to guide them through it becomes just as important as the design itself.
Here are some tips I always share with my clients before the renovation begins. Feel free to borrow or adapt these for your own process:
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There will be surprises.
No matter how well we plan, opening up walls can reveal things we couldn’t have known - plumbing in the wrong spot, old wiring, structural oddities. This phase is usually the hardest, because the unknowns suddenly become known. Designs may need to adjust, and additional costs might come up. Once we get past that, things tend to smooth out. -
It’s going to look worse before it looks better.
Demo is dramatic, and it’s meant to be. But that first shock of seeing your space torn apart can be unsettling. I tell clients in advance: you will have a moment where you second-guess everything. That’s normal. -
There will be dust.
If your clients plan to live at home during the renovation, they should be prepared: even the best-sealed job sites can’t keep dust fully contained. It finds a way. Daily cleanup helps, but there will be dust in places no one expects - and even after the messiest phase is over, it can take time for the space to feel fully clean again. -
Some days, nothing will seem to happen.
Scheduling trades, waiting for things to dry or cure, material delays - it’s all part of the process. A well-managed project accounts for these gaps, but clients may not understand why no one is on site for a day or two. Let them know this is normal. -
The pace changes.
The first phase - demo, framing, early mechanical work - feels fast. Then things slow down while the “invisible” work happens (plumbing, electrical, HVAC). Once drywall goes up and finishes start appearing, they’ll feel the momentum again. Prepare them for this shift in pace. -
They’ll get tired.
Toward the end, even the most enthusiastic clients start to feel worn out. They want it done. They want their space back. The final 10% (punch list, final styling) can feel like it drags, but it’s important. I always encourage clients to hang on just a little longer; this part really does make the difference. -
They should plan for a proper clean.
Even after trades finish and the job site is “clean,” post-construction dust lingers. A professional deep clean makes a world of difference in how the space feels on handover day.
At the end of the day, it’s not just about creating a beautiful result. It’s about managing the experience so clients feel supported every step of the way.
I’d love to hear what’s worked well for you - drop your thoughts in the comments.